Me,Myself & I











I'm Kaylin Van Niekerk a 19 year old.I was raised by a single parent my wonderful mother who i love so much..My father died when i was only 10 months old and that created a deep hole in my heart as i grew up.But i also had a stepfather who played the role of my father ,i got big love for him because he raised me as he own.I also had to lose him a few years ago.I became to found myself as i reached the age of 12 years old that i am not comfortable in a body of a female.I was like a boy as i grew up,i played with boys soccer and stuff.I didn't like the idea of playing with girls.People called me a tomboy and i first didn't understand what is was until i became wiser and finally founded out that it is actually a (lebain).As i grew older people started to judge me but i can't help to be what i am.I didn't asked to be like this.And i decided if my family loves me and accept me for who i am who are people who isn't even a factor in my life.On high school i was the' man of my classes i was in.In grade 10 i was announced as the best achiever in class and i got 8th place for the whole group 10' of 2015.And in that year i also founded the woman of my life that i love with all my heart.And this year we are 3 years together tho'.I was so proud of myself because on primary school i didn't like school work at all tho'.But i told myself that in high school i need to change my mindset because things gets tougher.I believed in myself and pushed myself everyday.I started to focus on my school work and forget the rest.I did have friends yah but i didn't let them influence me to lose focus.I put my goals out and said to myself in order to achieve my goals i need too do things for myself.In my matric year i was still the best achiever and i praised myself for improving each year with certificates.I don't come from a rich family where everything is putted on a plate for me i had to work for it.I had to make quit time for myself to study so that i can have a better life.I am the first child of my mother who got into matric and even passed with flying colours(bachelor).I can be a role model for my brothers and sister to better their life's and i believe that is what makes my dream so perfect.My mother was so proud of me and so was i.My dream is to become the first lawyer in our family and i am going to get there i know it.With the help and prayers too my heavenly father.I did things in my life that i am not proud of but that was lessons learned.I told myself that in order to achieve my goals i need to make sacrifices and coming to Chrysalis Academy is one of them.I told myself that i need too change things in my life to get there.Only i can change my life no one can do it for me.I don't dream about success i work for it.I told myself:See your goals,understand the obstacles,create a positive mental picture,clear yor mind of self doubt,embrace the challenge,stay on track,SHOW THE WORLD THAT YOU CAN DO IT.


"I distance myself from people,not because i think i am better then them but simply because 
WE ARE MOVING IN TWO DIFFERENT DIRECTIONS"


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